What to expect from an initial consultation with a Family Lawyer and how to be prepared

Meeting with a family lawyer for the first time can feel confronting and emotionally draining, especially when you're already dealing with tough family issues. It's completely normal to feel unsure about what to expect or nervous about talking about personal matters with someone new. Many people go into that first appointment feeling unready or uncertain about what questions to ask.

Rest assured, family lawyers understand the sensitive nature of these situations and are there to guide you through the process with care and professionalism. 

The purpose of this initial consultation is for the lawyer to understand your situation and provide you with clear, initial guidance on your rights and the potential pathways forward. It's also an opportunity for you to meet the lawyer, get to know them, understand their communication style and approach to handling cases, and assess whether they feel like the right fit for your specific needs and circumstances.

Here is some advice from our family lawyers on preparing for your initial consultation and what to expect during the meeting.

Gather relevant documents

To make the most of your initial consultation, it’s best to come prepared. Try to document a list of all your assets and liabilities ahead of the meeting. You can either send this over ahead of the meeting or bring it with you to the meeting. We have a simple template that helps guide you on what to include (click here).  You don’t need to bring detailed paperwork (like bank statements) at this stage, a general overview is sufficient.

Having this information ahead of the meeting will allow your lawyer to better understand your situation and provide tailored advice. 

This context allows us to assess your circumstances and identify what further information may be required moving forward but also give you tailored advice to your current situation.

Ask questions to help ease uncertainty and gain clarity

Before the consultation, take some time to write down any questions or concerns you may have.

This will help you make the most of your time with the lawyer and ensure you leave the consultation feeling informed and reassured.

Bring a support person or a comfort pet 

You’re welcome to bring a trusted friend or family member or a comfort pet to support you during the consultation and help ease any stress or anxiety. 

Many people find it helpful to have someone there to listen, take notes, or simply offer emotional support during this challenging time.

How should I feel at the end of the meeting?

You have been listened to and understood.

Your questions were answered in a way that was clear.

Where appropriate, legal and non-legal options were explored as a way to resolve matters

You understand what further steps are required if necessary.

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We offer a free initial 30-minute consultation, to book yours, call us on 03 9596 0222.